享受“三乐”

<font size="5">「三乐」即：助人为乐、知足常乐、自得其乐。</font><wbr><wbr><wbr><wbr><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr></span></span></span>

<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'"><font size="5">进一步说就是在自己好的时候要多助人为乐，</font></span><wbr><wbr><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'"><font size="5">在自己过得一般的时候要知足常乐，</font></span><wbr></span><wbr></span></span><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><font size="5"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">而当自己处于逆境中时则要学会自得其乐。</span><wbr></span><wbr></font> </span></span>

<p align="center"><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><strong><font face="黑体" color="#9900cc" size="6"><u>除去三“盲”</u></font></strong></span></span></p>

<p><strong><font size="5"><font face="楷体_GB2312">手忙，做错事情，把简单变复杂；</font></font></strong></p>

<p><b><font size="5"><font face="楷体_GB2312">眼盲，患得患失，迷失了方向；</font></font></b></p>
<p><b><font size="5"><font face="楷体_GB2312">。</font></font></b></p>

<b><font size="5"><font face="楷体_GB2312">心茫，困惑迷茫，飘浮的心灵找不到家</font></font></b>

&nbsp;<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体"><font face="楷体_GB2312"><font size="5"><u><font face="黑体"><font color="#3300cc">学会三「不要」<wbr><wbr><wbr></font></font></u> </font></font></span></b>

&nbsp;1、不要拿别人的错误来惩罚自己。<wbr><wbr><wbr><wbr><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">现实生活中有许多人一不怕苦，二不怕死，</span><wbr></span><wbr></span></span><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">再重的担子压不垮他，再大的困难也吓不倒他，</span><wbr></span><wbr></span></span><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">但是他受不起委屈，冤枉。其实，委屈、冤枉，</span><wbr></span><wbr></span></span><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">就是别人犯错误，你没犯错误；</span><wbr></span><wbr></span></span><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">而受不起委屈和冤枉就是拿别人的错误来惩罚自己。</span><wbr></span><wbr></span></span><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">懂了这个道理，再遇到这种情况，</span><wbr></span><wbr></span></span><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">对付它的最好办法就是一笑了之，不把它当一回事。</span><wbr></span><wbr></span><wbr></span><wbr><br/><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">　　　</span></span></span></span>

　2、不要拿自己的错误来惩罚别人。<wbr><wbr><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">当自己受到冤枉或不公正待遇后，也冤枉别人或不公正地对待别人。</span><wbr></span><wbr></span></span><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">事实上当你伤害别人时，自己会再次受到伤害。</span><wbr></span><wbr></span><wbr></span><wbr><br/><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">　　　　</span></span></span></span>

3、不要拿自己的错误来惩罚自己<wbr><wbr>。<wbr><wbr><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">何谓好人？我们认为，如果交给他（她）做10件事，</span><wbr></span><wbr></span></span><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">他（她）能做对7~8件，就是好人。</span><wbr></span><wbr></span></span><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">显然，这句话潜藏著另外一层含意就是好人也会做错事，</span><wbr></span><wbr></span></span><span style="COLOR: #cc6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 18px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.8em; FONT-FAMILY: '仿宋_GB2312'">好人也会犯错误。</span><wbr></span><wbr> </span><wbr></span><wbr><br/>